I used to speak there to offer an alternative to divorce and I found the professionals they invite to be caring and forthcoming. One mostly neutral resource I’m aware of is the Second Saturday divorce support group. If you seek other opinions, be sure to find someone impartial who won’t have the opportunity to make money from you divorce lawyers or therapists will naturally want you to become their client. Finally, if not most importantly: Is your marriage recoverable?Ĭarefully consider each question I pose, as it will help you decide what your next move should be.In this article, I’ve laid out the most pressing and relevant questions one should consider before getting a divorce, and I’ve separated them into 6 sections: At this stage, it is of the utmost importance that you carefully consider all of your options and check all the facts before you act. If you are considering divorce, then now is not the time to be impulsive. “Jumping out of the frying pan and into the fire,” would be a better description of what really happens. 95% of the time, it is not the escape most people imagine it to be. Usually, they just believed their therapist who had told them that their marriage couldn’t be saved.ĭivorce is far more complicated than most people realize, thanks to the divorce industry that makes billions from divorce. In fact, they often even didn’t know if their marriage was truly “over”. Many hadn’t even considered what their life would look like during or after the divorce. To my surprise, I noticed that most people were not at all prepared when they came to see me. I was a divorce mediator before I began saving marriages. Well, I can be quite clear about that: “No, it won’t!” If you disagree with your spouse, can the two of you talk the matter over and come to a solution, or does it result in an argument or fight? Perhaps it’s even in front of the children something you vowed you would never do? And if you’re having these sorts of problems, has getting a divorce ever crossed your mind, especially because you’ve read that that would ultimately be better for the kids. Which words would you use to describe your marriage? Happiness, harmony, laughter? Or frustration, irritation, anger, endless arguments?
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